Ruffle social

Social ruffle: ruffle a head of hair -- yours or somebody else's

Here is how this social looks to you and to everyone around...

On yourself: You ruffle your hair, playing the neurotic. Kadm ruffles that hair -- clearly short on Head & Shoulders!

No argument: You have got to ruffle SOMEONE.

On someone: You ruffle Blukatos's hair playfully. Kadm ruffles your hair playfully. Kadm ruffles Blukatos's hair playfully.